I’ve blogged before about all of these romantic, Norman Rockwell-esque visions I’ve had of raising my children. I’ve always imagined our adventures to be like something you would see in an old Saturday Evening Post. The boys would be dressed handsomely, the adventures would go off flawlessly, and we’d all have a grand laugh and sheer enjoyment. Then I became a mother to two boys, and I realized that any sort of notion I’d had about having this type of family could immediately be shooed out the door like today’s annoying fly.
When Davey was still a baby, we bought a hiking backpack that has a nice little compartment for him to sit in. My husband and I thought that since we lived in one of the more beautiful place of South Carolina, with mountains literally right in our backyard, that we could go on hikes. It never happened. Davey never once got to sit in said backpack and experience the fresh air, the exciting wildlife, or the exhilaration of hiking through the woods.
When Henry came along, we used the backpack while flying, finding it easier as he’s become older to put him in it as opposed to bringing along a labor intensive stroller. For weeks I’ve considered remedying this, to take my boys out into the woods, to experience nature, like I did as a kid. Unfortunately, the incessant rain and cumbersome flooding we’ve received have dampened (all puns intended) my desire to go for a hike, not to mention that I’ve been super worried about going alone with the boys, only because they can be a handful at times. Yesterday, we made that dream into a reality.
For the first time in weeks, my husband came home early on a Friday. He had no meetings, no golf games, or clay shooting events. He wasn’t going deer hunting on a Saturday morning, so no need to go out on the land to check out his blind or his feeder. Nope. The stars officially aligned for our hiking trip, so we took it.
As I stated earlier, we live in the most perfect of places. We have Paris Mountain literally in our backyard. It’s a beautiful mountain, not extremely high, but gorgeous to look at while sitting on our back porch in the evenings. Since it was after 2 when my husband got home, we decided our best bet was to just go to Paris Mountain to hike as opposed to driving to one of the many other splendid places.
I laced up my hiking boots, the wonderfully comfortable North Face boots my husband bought me 5 years ago and which I’ve only worn a handful of times. I dressed the boys warmly, had them all prepared, so that as soon as my husband walked into the door we could go, and off we went.
This is a great time of year for a hike, especially in South Carolina. The days are still enjoyably warm, but not too hot. The mountain air was fresh and invigorating. We started out on the small trail, before taking on one just a little bit harder. My husband took the lead, Henry strapped to his back, while Davey and I followed along.
The entire hike, Davey periodically broke into song, singing, “Going on a bear hunt,” while other times asking about the creeks, the fallen trees, the fallen leaves, the rocks he had to climb over, or some of the massive roots. We used the opportunity to talk to him about if he’s ever lost in the woods and is thirsty where best to drink water…from a flowing creek or stream. We talked about the huge roots, why some of them can be seen above ground, and what their purpose is. We stepped over small breaks in the trail where trickles of water were flowing. We even repurposed some of the fallen branches into our own personal walking sticks.
About a mile into the hike, Henry decided he’d had enough of being lugged around on his daddy’s back, especially as he saw Davey able to enjoy the physical exploration of the trail, so we took him out and let him walk. I cringed for a split second as I wondered if he’d actually stay with us on the trail or if he’d wander off and try to climb the mountain. He quickly proved me wrong, but after only a half mile of walking, he tripped and fell, thereby skinning up his hands and forcing us to put him back into the backpack.
We had a wonderful time, an hour and a half of nothing but us and God’s beautiful creations. It took us literally an hour and a half to hike 3 miles, which I’m hoping will improve once we get the boys going more regularly. Davey even enjoyed himself so much, that he wanted to get up and go again this morning. Unfortunately, our Saturday is already booked solid.
What a great day of hiking, “bear hunting”, and family time. I can’t wait for more.