As many of you are aware, South Carolina midlands and coastal areas experienced flooding unlike anything that’s ever been seen in our state. The Upstate, where I live with my family, was originally predicted to see more flooding than what it received. Fortunately for us, but not so fortunate for the rest of the state, we dodged a bullet.
For days our television has been inundated with images of flood waters, cars submerged, people attempting to drive through the floods, rescuers saving people by boat and air, and total devastation of major roadways. While we don’t let our boys watch much along the lines of normal television (they get PBS and kids movies), it’s been near impossible for us to keep them away from the news, and truthfully I haven’t wanted to hide it. I’ve actually encouraged it.
This morning, I sat Davey down alongside me as we watched news reports of the devastation. I suppose I expected him to ask more questions, but mostly he just thought it was “cool”. I suppose that’s the normal response for a four year old, and I don’t fault him too much for it. He’s a kid, but he’s also a fortunate kid, one who is blessed beyond measure.
I should have just let it go. I should have allowed him to just say, “that’s cool, mom.” but I didn’t. I wanted him to see what was going on in our state, in some places less than an hour away. I wanted him to know that there are people who are suffering. I wanted him to know that there are people who’ve lost everything. I wanted him to be thankful for what he had. I guess that’s asking a little too much, but I didn’t just let it go. I took the opportunity, as heart breaking as it is, to teach my son.
We talked about the weather and how the flood waters came about. He asked if it was like with Noah, and I said “no”, although some people may have felt differently. We talked about how it’s our responsibility not just as Christians, but as South Carolinians, to help our neighbors. I encouraged him to look around and tell me what he should be thankful for. He said his toys, naturally, but then I implored him to look further. I asked him if he’s blessed to have a house. His response, doesn’t everyone have a house? No, sweetheart, everyone does NOT have a house. I told him we have food, and once again he was confused, because doesn’t everyone have food?
I’m not ashamed of what we have. I don’t feel guilty for our blessings, I’m thankful for them. I’m grateful that the Lord has provided for us, but now it’s our turn to help provide for others. So, I told Davey that we were going to do a donation drive in our neighborhood. He didn’t understand, so once again I got down to the level of a four year old and explained that we’re going to collect bottled water, diapers, formula, and individually packaged snacks for the Red Cross.
We posted our donation drive on our neighborhood Facebook page and what a blessing to already have neighbors respond, less than six hours after we posted it. When our first donation came in, the excitement in Davey’s eyes was wonderfully magical. He’s genuinely excited to help and while he may not understand completely the ramifications of this horrible storm, he knows he, like so many of us, plays a crucial role in helping our state to rebuild.
If you’re interested in helping out those hit by the floods in South Carolina, then please visit the Red Cross and make a donation. If you’re interested in contributing to our neighborhood donation drive, then contact me.
We are all God’s children and we all have a responsibility to come to the aid of our neighbors. Be thankful for what you have in life and give to those who may have lost it all.
We are #scstrong.